The Impossibility of Making Everyone Happy

Do you love to make people happy? Is their approval important to you? Do you hate the idea that you may not be liked? You are not alone. In another life, when I mainly worked as an Actor, that was the bane of my existence., Thousands of auditions are at the mercy of decisions made by several parties. I remember spending a lot of time second guessing myself, before I knew better. What I found, is that people pleasing is a symptom of low Self-Worth…

In a world filled with diverse opinions, preferences, and interests, the notion of making everyone happy can seem like an impossible task. Yet, many of us fall into the trap of trying to please everyone, sacrificing our own well-being and authenticity in the process. It’s essential to recognise the limitations of this pursuit and to cultivate a healthier relationship with the concept of happiness and Self.

The Illusion of Universal Satisfaction

While the desire to make everyone happy may stem from a genuine desire for harmony and connection, it’s important to acknowledge that happiness is subjective and varied. What brings joy to one person may not resonate with another, and trying to cater to everyone’s individual preferences is an exercise in futility and madness. The pursuit of universal satisfaction can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and a sense…