8 Years to find Permanent Employment, Solutions for women facing Ongoing Issues

Tula Tzoras, Speaking to Empower Women

A couple of days ago, I watched a story on Ruth, a woman living in Tasmania, who, after eight whole years, found a job! I wanted to share the ABC Story with you, to share the good news and to address the ONE UNDERLYING ISSUE WE HAVE, OF SELF-WORTH: “I CAN’T DO IT”.

Ruth speaks about ongoing Self-Doubt and the struggle of finding permanent employment. Thanks to #DressforSuccess, she was empowered to do just that, dress for success. Can you imagine what this did for her confidence?

In my experience, Self-Worth is the biggest underlying issue we face. It is directly linked with achieving anything we plan.

If you’ve followed my articles, you will know that I have spent a lifetime and fortune on personal/spiritual growth, finally becoming a Mentor and Coach. On my journey, I found that it takes a combination of methods and consistent practice to redesign your Life to be a Life you Love…

The Magic happens outside your Comfort Zone!

The fact is, that there are many external factors at play here. Older women are less likely to be employed, whilst the Gender pay gap is alive and well. As of February 2022, the pay gap in Australia means women earn on average $255.30 per week less than men.

When someone spends as long as eight years pursuing permanent employment, that inner critic, self doubt we hate, just grows louder and louder, following every “failure”. We tend to justify our inner belief that “we can’t do it”, “we can’t find a job”, let alone do what we love!

That Inner Critic is a Nightmare!

We all have one, giving us the impression that, other than a pay gap, there is a huge gap between our reality and doing what we love. GUESS WHAT? THAT IS NOT TRUE! Do not feel disheartened. You are not alone and, unlikely as it may seem, you can change your mind and change your life!

Solutions for You

  1. After spending a lifetime and fortune on my own growth, I created what has now become my #LEGACY, an Online Course, combining the best tools I have gathered over a lifetime for your personal and professional success! Right now you can ACCESS the FIRST MODULE FREE, to Silence your Inner Critic & Boost Your Confidence. If you enrol now, you can also gain Access to the entire Program for a heavily discounted price. 40 Lessons you can get on any device, bonus downloads, expert Guest Tips and More!
  2. It takes daily practice to create new Neural Pathways, so that you can change your Subconscious Emotional Mind. To build your Self-Worth, ensure you practice the tips in the Module above several times a day. Specifically one in front of the Mirror.
  3. Begin to think about what you would love. You will find this is a more challenging exercise than you think, because we are used to reeling off all the things we hate, focussing on the negative.
  4. Start to make Conscious Choices, knowing that every choice you make has a consequence. Begin to make better choices for yourself.
  5. Find ways to express yourself. You may enjoy writing, dancing, painting, singing, or Speaking. You will find that, as you build your confidence, you will better be able to express yourself to win any job or anything you like.
  6. Then we can begin to find ways to do what you love and make a great living doing it!
  7. You are welcome to book a FREE EMPOWER CHAT WITH ME

I hope that empowers you today! Here’s to women empowering women!



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Tula Tzoras

Tula Tzoras

Tula Tzoras is a Mentor/Coach, Author, Speaker, Actor. Founder of Areti Goddess Events Pty Ltd, empowering women to bridge the gender gap.